Month: November 2021

I noticed my coworker’s shoes were made out of fabric printed with cartoon-style dogs. “Cute shoes!” I commented. Her response was, “If I have to wear something, I’m gonna make it fun.” (I later learned she does not like the feeling of her feet being encased and restricted.)  

I like the philosophy of her quote, expanded to include anything in life: “If I’m gonna do something, I’m gonna make it fun.” Or simply, “Make it fun!” I think a little lightheartedness exponentially elevates the soul.

The PBS station in Chicago (the area I’m from) used to air Championship Ballroom Dancing, an annual competition. Athletes typically sported risque, rhinestone-covered costumes and fake eyelashes. One year, host Ron Montez told viewers that there’s a saying in the ballroom dance world: “If you’ve got it, flaunt it; if you don’t, do it anyway.”  

I thought that was a great all-around philosophy. Really, what choice do you have? Feel ashamed, turn into a wallflower, and have a miserable time, or go out there and strut your stuff! What’s better (and more attractive) than being fully alive?