Category: Unsolicited Advice

It’s almost the start of a new year! I’m not much of a party person, so on New Year’s Eve, I spend time choosing a goal for the coming year. Then I blast Jimi Hendrix’s version of ‘Auld Lang Syne.’ (This can be found on the album Jimi Hendrix: Live at the Fillmore East.) I think it’s important to choose a goal that will enrich your spirit. If you admire painters, start painting. If you want to feel more empowered, take a self-defense class. If you’re bored at work, get a job more in line with your interests. If you need mental stimulation, join a club and meet new people. If you’re an armchair Francophile, start learning French and planning a trip to Paris. Pick a goal that you’re excited about. Pick a goal that will change your life.
My goal for the next year is to take an extended road trip all over the United States. How about you?

Photo: moon and trees, Illinois

I’ve disappointed them again: the people who live vicariously through my vacation photos. For the last couple years, instead of traveling during my vacations, I’ve spent the time Getting Stuff Done. I highly recommend the intensive, productive staycation. I make a list of everything I wanted to get done during the year but have put off because it requires research, is time-consuming, or is just plain tedious and boring. Then I spend the week check-check-checking items off the list. It’s very satisfying. Over these vacations, I’ve written my will, put together a master resume, researched and bought electronics, chosen a new healthcare plan, converted paper files into computer documents, started a blog, and more.

Don’t feel lame about staying home. Your coworkers and friends will just have to see Montana for themselves.

Photo: brick wall